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Some people have no problem approaching someone on a beach or in a coffee shop. They could strike up and spice up a conversation oh-so-smoothly<\/em> as if they do this for a living.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meanwhile, a few others shudder\u2014or maybe less exaggerated than this\u2014at the thought of talking to someone. There are even some that find it hard to eye flirt! Undoubtedly, dating has its fair share of challenges, especially in the Thai dating scene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Interesting Questions to Ask to Spice Up A Conversation<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s nothing inherently wrong with being shy or uncomfortable talking to someone you\u2019ve just met. But it might be your biggest roadblock if you\u2019re looking for someone to date in Thailand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Luckily, we\u2019re here to help you seem fun and outgoing in front of a Thai single you\u2019re attracted to. Below are a series of questions to ask to spice up a conversation:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No-Pressure Conversation-Starters<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

We highly recommend starting with something light, casual, and simple. Think of this part as an \u2018appetizer\u2019 for a full meal of conversation:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. What were you like as a kid?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

They may respond with specifics about their favorite TV shows or hobbies as a child or their family dynamics. They may also talk about the best toy they got as a kid, a memorable family vacation, or their upbringing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether they reply with a highly superficial or meaningful answer, this question can help strengthen your relationship with your crush. It gives you an idea of what stands out to them as a core memory. In turn, it lets you take a peek at that person’s upbringing or to their character.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Do you live alone?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

This question is a great conversation starter because it lets you know someone’s living situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are they staying with family? Is it a cultural thing or simply about practicality? Or, if they reside far from their folks, do they have roommates or live alone?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This information is essential as it gives you a glimpse of how pragmatic or independent someone is. But the best part of opting to throw this question to spice up your conversation on a date? You’ll get hilarious anecdotes about living scenarios like horrible roommates or epic still-living-with-the-family-and-bringing-the-date-to-the-house mishaps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. What\u2019s your favorite book, film, TV show, or music of all time?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

We all have that favorite book, film, TV show, or music of all time. You may have watched it so many times before\u2014and are still planning to when time permits\u2014or is on repeat on your playlist! Inarguably, these things have become your benchmark for everything you read, watch, or listen to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Broach the subject of their favorite film, TV shows, podcasts, and music (and other related topics) of all time. Who knows, maybe you like the same form of entertainment? Also this way, you can invite that person to binge them together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spice up the conversation by discussing core scenarios about any topic\u2014fiction or non-fiction\u2014they’re into. Do you both like watching Friends? Talk about the scene that made you literally roll with laughter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, say you enjoy watching Friends, but they like HIMYM, then don’t engage and find anyone else. Okay, kidding!<\/strong> Seriously, when that happens, talk about some common ground. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We bet liking different shows\u2014especially those that people have constantly been comparing against each other\u2014is more interesting. If anything, you could argue why your favorite is better than theirs and vice versa. Nevertheless, assure them you’re open to trying their guilty pleasures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. What did you first notice about me?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

What made them reach out to you? Was it your smile? Your confidence? Come on! Ask it; we know you\u2019re already so curious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, if you were the one to approach them, tweak the question a bit. Ask that person what they think is most attractive about you. Prepare yourself to be flattered or widely dismayed by their answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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